9 1/2 mo old picky eater ... any suggestions??

My little gal just decided last week that she didn't want me to feed her at all .... She had been a champion eater with her purees and hadn't shown a lot of interest in finger food. Now, she only wants to self-feed, which is fine, but she'll only eat a few things ... cut up bananas, cheerios, bagels with a tiny bit of peanut er (doc said it was ok) and Gerber pasta pickups. That's it. I've tried other soft fruits, avacado, little chunks of meat, cheese, etc. and she won't take any of it. Other than bananas, she doesn't seem to like "slimy" foods. I am still nursing, so I know she's getting nutrients, but I have cut back a little. I know it's probably a phase... That said, I would still appreciate any other tips or ideas that any of you may have. Thank you!!