Monday, January 9, 2012
Granny's who love too much?
Many Mothers have problems with their Mothers in Law...for various reasons...mine is an extremely loving woman..kind and generous who would do anything for her grandchildren...but she is overbearing and too intense...her affection wears my children out and they get irritated and around her. She lives abroad and my husband wanted us to live there for 3 years but I didnt want to uproot my children...there are no little cousins over there for them and the schools are very bad...anyway..I was just looking through some old photos and when I saw ones of my MIL with my kids, I realised that part of my not wanting to live over there was because of her, kind as she is...when I lived over there for a year with my husband and our 1st baby, I often felt uncomfortable around her intensity...I had a notion that were my husband and I to split, that she would do ANYTHING to keep her grandchild in that country near her...it was more of an instinct...now we are in the UK I am still very unwilling to go over there because of this...do you think I am paranoid or should I trust my instincts? I dont think that my hsbad and I will split...we love each other...but you never know do you? And people CAN make it hard for people to leave a country with the kids....mine have dual nationality too.
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