Biggest Rut of my life! Not motivated, don't care..need help!?

Hi, I'm definitely in the biggest rut of my life and I don't know what to do about it. I've stopped really seeing my friends since the summer because I feel like it's the same old same old. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost three years but things seem so boring with us too..like there's nothing really exciting left to look forward to. My problem is that I am a student about to finish up and I'mjust anxious to get going but I feel like all directions seem pointless...I'm not sure why I feel like this but it's gotten to the point where I can't even fake happy anymore, I was at a friend's birthday party a couple days ago and I barely spoke becuace everything seemed so ..the same..I know I need to get going but I can't seem to find my footing! I just feel like I was meant for so much more than the environments that I'm in and I just don't know what to do about it..suggestions? votes of confidence?? ANYTHING PLEASE! Entice me!